Wednesday, February 13, 2013

Valentine's Day - - Be Thankful

I was browsing on Facebook when I came across a friend's status update that was so uplifting I just had to share it with you!
My husband doesn't usually surprise me with flowers or candy. He doesn't whisk me off on romantic getaways or escort me around to the finest restaurants. I don't have an expensive engagement ring and I won't find any little boxes on Valentine's Day. What my husband does do outweighs anything he doesn't. He wakes up everyday, prepared to be the leader of our home. He loves me unconditionally and will put our family's needs in front of his wants. I rest assured that I can depend on him in any situation and we will come out stronger than before. If Valentine's Day is meant to celebrate anything, I will be celebrating the love of a godly man ♥

This Valentine's Day, don't focus on what your husband doesn't do for you.  Don't think about the candy you were hoping for, the flowers he hasn't bought you, or the getaway you had been planning in your daydreams.  Remember why you married your man, and thank him as well as God for the blessings he brings to you and to your family.

52 Reasons I am Thankful for my Husband
  • He provides for our family - - no matter how difficult
  • He makes sure that I am relaxed and have time for myself
  • He prays with me
  • He happily plays with our son
  • He always goes to work
  • He is an excellent employee
  • He holds me at night
  • He tells me that he loves me
  • He brings me home little treats once in a while
  • He comes home from a 12 hour shift and does housework
  • He cares a great deal about the wellbeing of our son
  • He loves our son
  • He stands up for our family
  • He encourages me
  • He puts the Love Bug to bed each night
  • He doesn't whine
  • He is quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry
  • He has a great conscience
  • He is tidy (for the most part!)
  • He values our relationship enough to stay up all night to work out an argument
  • He is my best friend
  • He supports me in my decisions
  • He tells me what he honestly thinks, and does so kindly
  • He compliments me
  • He loves me unconditionally
  • He loves the Lord
  • He is musical
  • He is inventive
  • He can fix anything... sometimes just by touching it!
  • He doesn't swear
  • He speaks well of people
  • He controls his anger
  • He asks me my opinion
  • He was so patient with me when I was pregnant and hormonal
  • He will never leave me
  • He'll buy me feminine products
  • He's hot
  • He has a unique smile
  • He only has eyes for me
  • He loves making me smile
  • He loves making our son laugh
  • He saved himself for me
  • He reminds me to take Midol when I'm cramping
  • He is humble
  • He's creative
  • He helps me feel safe
  • He protects our family
  • He turns the lights off and locks the doors at night
  • He takes his time making big decisions
  • He is very generous
  • He keeps his word
  • He supports me in my goals
Go text your hubby and tell him one thing you're thankful for about him!!

Tuesday, February 12, 2013

15 Ways to Save Your Marriage

 
If you want to save your marriage, Jesus is the only way!  Soak up all the good Words of God that you can, and work hard to apply them to your marriage.

Commit to the LORD whatever you do,  and he will establish your plans. Proverbs 16:3

Don't dwell on what he's doing or not doing, focus on what you can do better.  Here are some starting points:
  1. Communicate Better is open rebuke than hidden love.  Wounds from a friend can be trusted, but an enemy multiplies kisses. Proverbs 27:5-6
  2. Have sex - often May your fountain be blessed, and may you rejoice in the wife of your youth.  A loving doe, a graceful deer-- may her breasts satisfy you always, may you ever be captivated by her love. Proverbs 5:18-19
  3. Speak well of your husband behind his back A wife of noble character is her husband's crown, but a disgraceful wife is like decay in his bones. Proverbs 12:4
  4. Encourage him As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another. Proverbs 27:17
  5. Write notes for him to find throughout the day Anxiety weighs down the heart, but a kind word cheers it up. Proverbs 12:25
  6. Listen to him To answer before listening - that is folly and shame. Proverbs 18:13
  7. Be prudent with your money, especially if your husband is the only wage-earner Houses and wealth are inherited from parents, but a prudent wife is from the LORD. Proverbs 19:14
  8. Remain faithful to your husband A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies. Proverbs 31:10
  9. Realize that love is a verb - - it's what you do, not what you feel Hatred stirs up dissension, but love covers over all wrongs. Proverbs 10:12
  10. Be his best friend A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity. Proverbs 17:17
  11. Spend daily time with the Lord Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding;  in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight. Proverbs 3:5-6
  12. Talk together about God The name of the LORD is a strong tower; the righteous run to it and are safe. Proverbs 18:10
  13. Forgive him A person’s wisdom yields patience; it is to one’s glory to overlook an offense. Proverbs 19:11
  14. Live by God's standards Do not be wise in your own eyes; fear the Lord and shun evil. Proverbs 3:7
  15. Don't be ashamed to get counseling from a Christian counselor Does not wisdom call out? Does not understanding raise her voice? Proverbs 8:1

Monday, February 11, 2013

Stain Remover

There were a couple stains (one really bad one) on the carpet in the bedroom of our old apartment.  The landlord said he wanted to replace the carpet because of them, and we'd have to pay for it.  Well, I we sure that with my super awesome pinning skills, I would be able to find a way to get those stains out!
...I tried.  The big stain was too much for me.  I faded it a LOT, (and, in the process, fluffed the carpet), so we'll see what he says.  BUT the stain remover idea I used worked very well on the other stains.

 
Step One - - Mix Solution
1 part Dawn Dish Soap
2 parts Hydrogen Peroxide
I just mixed the two in a plastic cup and stirred it with a knife.  Also, I totally guesstimated about the quantities.
 
Step Two - - Pour or spray on stain
I just poured the solution right on the stains.  Then I worked it in a little bit with the knife.  It was very sudsy.


Step 3 - - Rub into stain
I took a rag and worked the stuff right into the carpet.  It's best to work at it from different angles so that you get the solution on all parts of the stain.

Step 4 - - Soak up with a dry rag, then vacuum
Do that and hopefully the stain will be gone!  Like I said, it only faded the really bad stain (sorry, I forgot to take a picture).  I heard that red doesn't come out of carpets - - and my stain was orange.  Better luck to you!

Saturday, February 9, 2013

10 Reasons I'm Grateful for our Struggles

We just moved out of our teeny-tiny one-bedroom apartment into a three-bedroom townhouse.  Can I just say "aaaahhhhh."  Space to breathe!!

As happy as I am here, and as pleased as I am that we are out of that season of our lives - - I am also so grateful for the time we spent in that apartment.  Here's why...
 
10.  It taught me to be creative in how I keep house
9.  What a blessing it was to be in an apartment that we could afford!!
8.  We got to live close to family for a season
7.  Our landlord restored our faith in all landlords (and it was so nice to have a Christian landlord!)
6.  So many memories were made in that home <3 
5.  Living in the apartment helped us realize the importance of getting out for a date night.
4.  We met people who truly blessed us
3.  The tiny apartment helped us to realize how blessed we were to even have a place to live!
2.  Living in a small space brought us closer as a family.
1.  The experience helped us to look forward to and enjoy the blessings of our new home in ways that nothing else could!

Friday, February 8, 2013

Our New Place

We moved!!!!

I am so excited to announce that we have officially moved into a three-bedroom townhouse!  We have so much more room to breathe now that the Love Bug has his own room, and we can actually use our dining room table.

Here are the promised pictures of our new place... still unpacking and decorating, but nevertheless here they are!

Utility Room
Guess what!  Hubby's tools aren't in the bedroom any more!  Woot Woot!!
 
Kitchen

I had this idea to go with a quilting theme in the kitchen... it's still coming along, but I think I'm going to like it!
 
Hall/Closet/Storage
 
Our storage area is a lot smaller than our old one, but we certainly don't need as much storage as we did there!  It's pretty cool... you go through the hall closet to the space under the stairs to access your storage.
 
Dining Room
That's right - - we have a dining room!!  We'll be getting a stand for the fish tank (and a new fish tank - - it cracked a little in the move) so that we can use the record player.
 
Living Room
The rug is new!
 
Stairwell
It's so strange having stairs in our new place... especially with a 1-year-old.  Remembering to set up the baby gate has been new.  We're going to put up more family pictures.
 
Office
We are still working out what will be in the office.  Eventually we want to have a pull-out couch so that guests can stay over (it'll double as a guest room).
 
Nursery
Ahhhh... Love Bug has a bedroom to himself!  It's been wonderful.
 
Bathroom
The toilet paper is accessible from the toilet seat!!  (In our old apartment, the toilet paper was far away from the toilet...)
 
Master Bedroom
It's so big!!!!  And our closet is huge, too!
 
Praise the Lord for this new season of our lives!!
 


Thursday, February 7, 2013

How to Hand-Wash Your Clothes


There have been several times when we were living in our old apartment complex when we didn't have quarters for laundry.  Now that we've moved, we don't have a washer yet.  With a one-year old, it makes it difficult to go to a Laundromat (especially without a car).

I had to learn how to wash my own clothes out of necessity.  I want to encourage you, if you are in a situation like mine, you can make it through a tough time with what you already have in the house.

So, here's how to wash your own clothes... and some of my own tips that I've learned along the way.

When to wash your own clothes:
  • You have no access to a washer/dryer
  • You are out of quarters for the Laundromat
  • You just need to wash a couple things in a hurry
When not to wash your own clothes:
  • You want to save money (washing your own clothes will actually cost you money if you pay for utilites - cost of hot water and dehumidifier)
  • You are almost out of detergent (I have found that I use more detergent when I wash my own clothes)
Finally, here are the steps:

Step One - - Separate your clothes
Just like when you wash clothes in a washer, you need to separate the lights/whites from the darks/colors.  You'll see how much the color bleeds when you wash the clothes, and chances are that you'll use warmer water because you need to use your hands.

There is no need to separate out your delicates, like you do when you wash your clothes in an electric washer.  You will be as delicate as you need to be with each item. :)

Step Two - - Fill tub with warm water, clothes, and detergent
Okay, there are two ways to do this: wash your clothes in the tub all togetherOR wash them in the sink one-by-one.  I know it doesn't sound as easy on paper, but I have found that washing the clothes one-by-one in the sink is the easiest way to wash your clothes.  Here are the pros and cons of each, so you can decide what's best for your situation:
In the sink allows you to scrub each item of clothing very well, and I believe it makes your clothes cleaner.  It is easier because you can take a break at any time without worrying about leaving the clothes in the soapy water.  (Trust me, especially if you have a lot of laundry to do, your hands will get tired of ringing out the laundry.)  You will, however, use more water (and, by extension, more electricity to warm the water).  It will use up more detergent as you pour a bit on each item of clothing.
 In the tub allows you to do a big load of laundry all at once.  You won't use as much detergent because you'll put the same amount in as you would a regular load of laundry.  You also won't use as much water as you would if you were to do the laundry in the sink.  On the other hand, it will be more tiring (especially on your hands when it's time to ring out all your clothes) and you won't get any breaks in the work because you'll want to get it all done at once to avoid stains on your laundry.
Whether you choose to fill the tub or the sink, you'll want to use warm water and plug the drain.  Pour a capful of detergent into the tub, or a few drops of detergent into the sink, under the running water.  Add in your clothes and get them nice and wet.

Step Three - - Let your clothes soak in the tub, or scrub them in the sink
If you are washing your clothes all at once in the tub, stir them up a bit and then let them soak in the soapy water for about 20 minutes.  Be sure to set a timer or something so you don't forget - - detergent will stain your clothes if left on too long.

If you're washing your clothes one-by-one in the sink, scrub the article of clothing very well, letting the detergent lather and bubble on your clothes.  Hold one side of the clothing in each hand, and scrub the sides together against each other.  You don't need to let the clothes soak unless you want to (but remember to not exceed 20 minutes).

Step Four - - Rinse your clothes (very well)
You want to rinse each article of clothing individually - - especially if they were washed in the tub all together.  If you leave detergent on the clothes, they will stain.  Rinse with warm or cold water (warm is easier on the hands if you're not wearing rubber gloves).

**Tip**
If you sprinkle a little bit of liquid fabric softener on top of your towels, socks, sheets, and undergarments while you rinse them, they'll be softer.  If you just rinse these items with water, they will be scratchy and stiff.

Step Five - - Hang up the clothes to dry
Take the clothes out of the water and ring them out.  This is a very important step - - you'll cut hours off of your drying time!  Jeans are the most difficult to ring out, but it will help out the most!

If it's summer, I would suggest hanging your clothes on a line outside.  The breeze and sunlight will dry the clothes faster than if they are hanging inside, and the fresh air will let your clothes breathe - - they'll smell nicer once they're dry.  Don't leave them out overnight, or in the sun too long.

If the weather doesn't permit you to let your clothes dry outside, you'll want to use a dehumidifier or fan under your drying rack.  If you don't have either, an exhaust fan in the bathroom will help or hang your clothes over a heater (but don't let them touch).  Your clothes will take longer to dry if you don't have a standing dehumidifier.

Step Six - - Fold and put away!
Once the clothes are dry, fold them up and put them away!  You can iron clothes that have been hand-washed (and you might need to more often, if you're picky about having ironed clothes, because they will be dried without the heat that takes many wrinkles out in a dryer).

Share your experience in washing your own clothes!  I'd love to hear how you did, and any tips you might come up with.

Friday, February 1, 2013

I'll Always Need My Mom

Isaiah 66:13: "As one whom his mother comforts, so I will comfort you ..."


What a blessing it is to have a mom who loves me and cares about me!

My mother is absolutely wonderful.  Everyone says so (including me).  I have several friends going through rough times with their moms, which in a way is a blessing for me because it makes me keenly aware of the kindness and loving spirit that my mother carries.

Yesterday my mom came over to help me pack, because we're moving tomorrow!!  I really invited her in the first place to just spend some time with her, but she went to town.  When she got here, she pulled out about a hundred quarters and said she was going to do my laundry.  Then she asked what I needed packed, and I told her the kitchen was the biggest obstacle I had to face that day.  She took over that project!  What a lady.

All I had to do was label boxes, and let me tell you, I couldn't keep up with her!  When we ran out of boxes, she ran to the liquor store (great place to get sturdy boxes) to get some more, and told me to take a nap while the little Love Bug slept.  I can't tell you how much I needed my mom yesterday, and she left with the promise of coming back today with more boxes and to help me finish packing!

For those of you who are all grown up and have perhaps started your own families, don't discount what your mother can (and needs to) do for you still.  Those of you who are mothers of grown-ups, do little things to show that you still care.  We need you today just as much as we needed you when we were little - - but we might be reluctant to tell you.

Ideas of ways to bless your grown-up children:

  • Ask before you drop by, but do drop by
  • Recognize when we need help financially, and give us even as little as $5 to help out
  • Bake cookies and bring them to us
  • If you're far away, mail a care package or send a card
  • Call us!  - - Just to chat
  • Ask us questions about us - - not just about our kids
  • Tell us how proud you are of us - - and be specific
  • Hug us
  • Write down verses to share with us

1 John 3:18: "Let us not love with word or with tongue, but in deed and truth."